Another Step Towards College Reality

UTSA is ready for my #1 son!

Talk about a combination merry-go-round/roller coaster! That’s what my life was like during a seven-day stretch that included my #1 son’s high school graduation, all-night ProGrad, and three days of college orientation. It’s been dizzying!

Having at least a week before traveling the three hours to San Antonio and being immersed in nonstop information would’ve been nice. However, the early bird gets the better pick of classes at the collegiate nest. So off I went with #1 and my good friend Sue and her daughter Jessika, who also will be attending the University of Texas at San Antonio this fall, a mere four days post-graduation.

Jealous of my Power Ranger pillowcase?

All four of us opted to stay on campus. First, Sue and I dropped off the grads at the dorm where #1 will be living, and then we went to check in with our suitcases and bedding at the dorm complex across the parking lot where Jess will stay in the fall. Believe me, it’s a sinking feeling when you’re rolling your luggage in front of a large group of parents—especially when your personal effects include your beloved Power Rangers pillowcase (specifically from the Time Force era)—who only are toting smirks.

We soon found out that we actually were staying where the kids were (except for being in different buildings) and could’ve left everything in the car. Lesson learned! And how glad was I that I had left my equally beloved Pokémon blanket at home?

My temporary UTSA dorm room

I especially wanted to stay in the dorm to experience what housing will be like for #1. Know what I quickly found out? These college students got it easy! Back in the day, I lived in a similarly sized room at the University of Illinois that housed two twin beds, two desks, and two closets. The bathroom? Down the hall and shared with every female on the floor.

But for #1, he’ll be the only person living in his room—he and his roommate, Ben, have separate bedrooms. They share a bathroom, small living space, and a tiny kitchen area (with a microwave, sink, and a full refrigerator). It’s like living in an apartment!

#1’s room is in the middle of the second floor of this building.

#1’s dorm complex is divided up into multiple buildings. He’s on the second floor close to the pool and laundry facilities.

Wonder how busy the pool will be in the fall?

We definitely didn’t have swimming pools when I was a student at U of I! Of course, it wasn’t summer most of the time there, either.

Freshman orientation wasn’t just about checking out the dorms, of course. #1 endured two days of meetings, getting to know the campus and learning what courses to pick. The parents also sat through lectures and became more comfortable with where our soon-to-be independent grads will be spending an important chunk of their lives. The best part was getting to know other parents and sharing information. The networking was invaluable!

Orientation really is about comfort levels: Our students’ with the campus and the parents’ with both the campus and the idea that our kids really will be fine once we drop them off on August 21 or 22.

Is #1 ready to start college? We’ll soon find out!

And one more thing: Once students are registered for class, UTSA considers them to be official college students. So #1 walked onto campus a high school graduate, and he left as a UTSA undergrad. Was it just my imagination or was he striding a little taller and looking a bit more confident after his honors advisor had signed off on his 15-hour fall semester schedule?

All I know is that I am not counting down the days until August 22!

8 responses to “Another Step Towards College Reality

  1. Good grief. Private bedrooms and swimming pools at a dorm? I’d love to go to college again if I could have that. Of course, only if it would mean I’d be 20 again and I could start over and not make all the mistakes I’ve made in the past 30+ years. 😉

  2. EM,

    I am so amazed that you keep this blog so consistently. It must be the marathoner in you! College living sure looks like it has improved since our days. What courses did Jake decide to take?


    • Fran: The blogs I like best have consistent posts, so I thought I’d go that route, too. That #1 son is going to take honors U.S. History (Civil War to present), College Algebra, American Criminal Justice System (because he plays a judge in his videos), the Third Planet (science), and freshmen composition (he’s going to try to test out of this, though).

  3. Susan, certainly campus life has changed since you went to U of I, you lived in the midwest and the climate is so different. It can really get hot in San Antonio, I’m so glad that Jake will be able to cool
    off in that pool while he is studying or after going to his classes. His dorm is like a small apt. and has much privacy, happy for my grandson Jake, it will be quite a transition for him.

  4. Glad you left orientation feeling more secure. I’ve been through it at 3 universities in IL and it was always eye-opening. The last time, at Melissa’s who will be a senior at ISU, had an interesting session on the connection between parents and students today (as compared to when we were at college). They referred to today’s parents as “helicopter” parents – hovering and in possible 24/7 contact with kids. Strongly suggested we not encourage daily texts, call, and emails. Tempting as it was to stay very much in touch, I did give Mel her space and it has all worked out well! I remember when Kyle left orientation at Bradley in 2002 he didn’t want a cell phone – didn’t think he’d need or use it! Times sure have changed rather quickly!

    • I think it’s nice that we can get hold of them and them us more quickly. #1 and I like to text each other, so I think that’s probably how we’ll communicate. I remember calling my parents every Sunday when I was in college; remember how expensive long-distance phone calls were?

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